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Five Things Experienced Mums Can Teach New Mums

Once you’ve got a few years of parenting under your belt there are often days you wish you could go back in time to give some useful advice to yourself as a new mum. You’d tell yourself what things were worth stressing about and marvel at how much easier life would have been if you only knew back then what you know now.

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Five Useful Pieces Of Advice For First Time Mums

1. Babies are really hard to break

Sleeping 5 day old baby boy. Used natural light from a north facing window and the camera was set at f/6.3, 1/60sec, iso400.

Cradling your newborn in your arms for the first time is possibly the most incredible feeling in the world, but it’s also the scariest. We’re always told to be so careful of their necks and heads and often worry we’re going to damage or hurt them – and remember how slowly you made your partner drive home from the hospital with your newborn in the car? Sure babies are precious but try not to worry you are going to hurt them; they’re a lot sturdier than you think.

2. Accept every single offer of help

Source: Istock.
Source: Istock.

It’s so tempting to be a superhero when you first have a baby and of course you want to do it all on your own. Just remember that no one is doubting the fact that you can do it all when they offer to take baby for awhile, they just want to help. Many first time mums are worried about handing their bundles of joy over but if you have someone you trust then do it, use the time to sleep. Alternatively if someone wants to come over and fold your washing or clean your house, please let them, they wouldn’t offer if they didn’t want to.

Tip: Don’t feel like you have to bath baby every day, often a top and tail rinse will do!

3. Let your baby sleep on you any chance you get

Things Experienced Mums Can Teach New Mums

So many books and websites suggest it’s wise to put baby to bed in order for them to learn how to sleep without, ignore this. Enjoy the precious bonding time that comes with having a baby fall asleep on you; use it as a time to have compulsory rest. Soon your baby will be a toddler and you’ll be hard pressed to get them to sleep during the daytime at all!

4. Try to avoid making separate meals

Beautiful mother and daughter in the kitchen

 

Now this is a tricky and contentious issue, but from experience we know parents who have made separate meals for their children from a young age and it has come back to bite them on the behind. While giving your toddlers a variety of foods and tastes doesn’t guarantee they’ll eat everything when they’re older – trust me they won’t – it will cause you less stress and could help encourage them to try the food put in front of them. You’ll also spend less time in the kitchen and that has to be good thing!

5. Don’t sweat the small stuff

Mother and baby

From checking the temperature in your baby’s room every few hours to feeling guilty because you child is in day care from a young age, there’s hundreds of ways we mums work ourselves up and worry about the small stuff. Try and look at the big picture when you’re worried because your newborn hasn’t slept all day, if they are awake and happy then just roll with it. There are no rules with babies and the sooner you get that the happier you will be. Go with the flow as much as you can.and are made in under 10-20 minutes.

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Milk Supply Boosting Recipes

The Healthy Mummy also has a range of recipes to help mums boost their breast milk supply.

Milk Booster Caramel Slice

Milk Boosting Caramel Slice

This delicious and healthy treat that can help increase your breast milk supply is our Caramel Slice.

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Lactation Muesli Bars

There are three key ingredients with a long-standing reputation for boosting milk supply in breastfeeding mums: oats, flaxseed and brewer’s yeast.

These ingredients are combined in these delicious bars, which are easy to make and taste great.

Milk Supply Boosting Recipes

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Emily Toxward

When former journalist Emily Toxward isn’t wrangling her three kids she’s juggling the demands writing and failing fabulously at being a domestic goddess. A published writer for nearly 20 years, Emily left full-time work in 2008 to have children and write from home. Always on the go, she spends her days negotiating with an army of little people she created and visits her local Gold Coast beaches for a little sanity.